It's quite easy to arouse a man, but keeping him interested is another story altogether. Thankfully, you can play sexy texting games to not only arouse him, but keep up his sexual cravings. However, you must know how to do it, lest you end up messing up everything. What are the guidelines? What are the right words to use? How do you know it's the right time to quit?
The truth is, if you get the basics right, do not be surprised if he initiates the games himself. Sometimes all men want is to get the right cue and they are ready to follow suit. Here's how to do it;
The gentle start … Once you start playing sexy texting games do it gently or what I like to call setting the stage. Let the game start on a gentle note. If you're playing the answer and question game, start by asking questions that are not so suggestive. However, ensure that whichever game you are playing is an interactive game that involves participation from him. This way it will be easy for you to get him where you want him to be eventually. It's important to mention that for you to keep him aroused; you need to control the direction the game heads right from the start.
Change the gears … Now that you've got his attention, it's time to take the game to the next level. This is using slightly suggestive words as the game heats up. For instance if you play the "would you rather …?" game, start asking him questions that are sexually suggestive. This will get him thinking about sex one step at a time. If he gets ahead of you, be sure to slow him down.
Increase anticipation … Creating anticipation is the way to go if you want to arouse your man and keep him that way. You see, the moment you start playing sexy texting games with him, he immediately starts forming dirty images in his mind. It's your job to make these images as clear as possible. This way you will make him crave for your body even more.
Assume you were playing one of the texting games known as "if you were here", you can keep the exchange as dirty as you can to arouse his sexual desire. Surprisingly, the dirtier you get the more interested he becomes. Add a sexy twist to every line or game you play with him.
Know when to let go … You need to know when to call it quits irrespective of which game you're playing with him. Remember the ultimate goal of playing texting games is to arouse your man's inner sexual desire. Do not over engage him; otherwise he might lose interest in the game altogether. When he's reached the point that he can not take anymore, know that it's time to withdraw. Bring the game to an end tactfully.
Use lines that will not leave him embarrassed. Always, be the one to withdraw. Let him know that you've enjoyed the game and it's time to sleep and say goodnight. When you call it quits, you will leave him aroused and yearning for your body. Just remember to tell him that you will let him have your body when you meet. After all, you're responsible for arousing his sexual desire and it would only be fair to let him have you the next time you're together.
Arousing a man through sexy texting games is largely determined by the direction you take the game. It's not given that your man will get turned on if you engage him in texting games.
However, if you bring in some sexual aspect into the game, you can be sure that he will be excited sexually. Tailor the games to fit a unique situation that only the two of you can associate with to make it as exciting as possible.
Source by Connie Lewis